so you just gonna bring me a birthday gift on my birthday to my birthday party on my birthday with a birthday gift
THIS NEVER GETS OLD
Becoming a cold hearted bitch wasn’t really what I planned to do with my life but here I am
reblog if you are into bondage or if you like french fries
"GENTLEMEN, WE ARE AT WAR WITH TROY AND MUST NOT DROP OUR GUARD AT ALL"
"sir, the enemy gave us a giant wooden horse"
"oh rad bring it in"
When a financial institution asks me my “mother’s maiden name” as a security question. Because it’s assumed that I have at least one and no more than one mother in my life AND that she married AND that she gave up her own name AND that that part of her identity was erased enough from my public history so as to be a password to access my private information.
Holy crap, I never realized.
The evolution of Halloween costumes for girls…
this is really important
Last year in creative writing we had to write slam poetry about something we felt passionate about, so I wrote about how slutty Halloween costumes are for women. It was really long and I think I swore too much, and my teacher fucking loved it. She read it out loud to the whole class, and I had never felt more embarrassed and proud at the same time.
Things people need to stop assuming and teaching
- Everyone feels romantic love
- Everyone gets romantic crushes
- Everyone wants to be in a romantic relationship
- Everyone wants to get married
- Romantic love is the strongest kind of love
- Romantic love is the most important kind of love
- Romantic love is the “default” love
It really bothers me when I see posts like ‘I wish I was asexual and aromantic because I hate having feelings!’ Like, no. Don’t say that. Don’t you dare fucking say that asexual aromantic people don’t have feelings. That’s not ok, and it’s extremely harmful and honestly it makes me feel like shit.
So, I’ve been working on my resources page and listing as many blogs/resources about aromanticism as I can find. And it makes me really happy, because when I joined Tumblr a year ago there was hardly anything for aro folks, and now there’s so much more. We’ve come a long way in one year and I am proud of you all. <3
I will celebrate with a big fat aromantic linkspam under the cut. This is not a complete list. If you want me to add a new link, or if you want me to take something off the list, just drop me a message.